Wednesday, December 07, 2005

 

What Swapna is saying about female foecide?

Feminists are contributing to female foeticide
I am a sociologist doing a PhD on Foeticide in urban India. Some of my finding are quite startling.

Agree that there is some amount of Son Preference among parents in India. But, the main cotrinbuter to foeticide is the alarmism created by feminists regarding vulnerability of women in our society. The alarmism about dowry deaths, rape created by feminists and media is sending a signal to urban indian parents that a girl always requires protection and because the the perceived in security (due to alarmism), then feel a girl in house can mean more worry and hence subconsciously they feel a girl can be a burden.

But, in reality, a man has 2 to 3 times chance of getting murdered than women. A boy has 5 times more chance of facing serious injury as a kid compared to a girl. The suicide rate of men is 1.5 times of that of women. The chance of a boy getting assaulted is 3 times more than that of a girl getting assaulted.

This side of reality is not conveyed to common masses. So, people feel, only women face violence. Its just similar to the air accidents being given more prominence in media which makes people get fear of flying. In reality, the road is 10 times riskier than air.

So, its time feminists leave goebbelian path and give both sides of statistics. They must desist from alarmism as this is stopping the Govt. from finding a Technical Solution to the foeticide problem (I mean some changes in the way the Ultra-Sound machines work: may be the image is not to be viewed and sent to a lab which submits the report).

Swapna

Comments:
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