Tuesday, October 11, 2005
'how can she do this to us'
Guys,
As a kid when we used to have a aggrasive physical fight in school, we used to hit each other at places which would be non-fatal or would not bleed. Around college, I saw 'gunda' element hitting people where they would bleed or hurt really bad (ex. eyes, nose, ear, head, groin....).
The analogy is, we are not like 'gunda' element who would do such a horrendous thing (498a) like our counter parts have done or are in the process of doing it. It is not easy for us to live peacefully with ourself learning how to hate.
We are taught to
a) believe blindly in wife after marraige
b) Keep the marriage through, so called tough times.
c) be polite and give respect to wife at all time (she is 'bahu')
d) love her and treat her well...
No matter how hard you try to change yourself, the ingrained value system does not let us fall down to 'her' level. This is the main reason why we do not understand 'how can she do it to us'.
- Satya
As a kid when we used to have a aggrasive physical fight in school, we used to hit each other at places which would be non-fatal or would not bleed. Around college, I saw 'gunda' element hitting people where they would bleed or hurt really bad (ex. eyes, nose, ear, head, groin....).
The analogy is, we are not like 'gunda' element who would do such a horrendous thing (498a) like our counter parts have done or are in the process of doing it. It is not easy for us to live peacefully with ourself learning how to hate.
We are taught to
a) believe blindly in wife after marraige
b) Keep the marriage through, so called tough times.
c) be polite and give respect to wife at all time (she is 'bahu')
d) love her and treat her well...
No matter how hard you try to change yourself, the ingrained value system does not let us fall down to 'her' level. This is the main reason why we do not understand 'how can she do it to us'.
- Satya
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# posted by 
: 12:09 AM, October 12, 2005
: 12:09 AM, October 12, 2005
Satya, You have hit the nail right on the head. Its time we
realise that instead of trying and trying and trying to change these women, we better change ourself. Lets change ourself instead of waiting when these women will realise their mistakes. To hell with these women. We just change our attitude and mentality, and life for us will change itself. Who the hell is saying that we don't have RIGHTS to be happy ? We will fight for our rights. We will see who has guts to stop us now. If these women don't have any consideration of our childrens then let it be. We can't allow them to torture us continuously only because we don't want our childrens to suffer. Let people say whatever they want to say. Let them say we are naamard
(no-men), we mustn't care. They have no clue what has happened to
us, who are they to decide something for our life. "Only one man can defeat you, that is your own self". Remember this. We men must begin to complain to police with the slightest nagging of our wife. Then only these women will understand that we also know how to fight for our rights. Don't think that such action will have
negative influence on your child. If your child is expose to
situation where his mother is torturing and controlling his father, then he too will grow up timid and expect that his wife will do the same. We are actually saving our own child's future by not allowing him to see that his mother is torturing his father. Given a chance, make a police complain on any unreasonable demand of your wife and see the ripple effect in the mindset of the society. Other men will also realise that its enough and we all men must fight for our rights otherwise these women will shallow us whole. Till date they
are just under a delusion that men think only lust. We will teach them what man can do.
realise that instead of trying and trying and trying to change these women, we better change ourself. Lets change ourself instead of waiting when these women will realise their mistakes. To hell with these women. We just change our attitude and mentality, and life for us will change itself. Who the hell is saying that we don't have RIGHTS to be happy ? We will fight for our rights. We will see who has guts to stop us now. If these women don't have any consideration of our childrens then let it be. We can't allow them to torture us continuously only because we don't want our childrens to suffer. Let people say whatever they want to say. Let them say we are naamard
(no-men), we mustn't care. They have no clue what has happened to
us, who are they to decide something for our life. "Only one man can defeat you, that is your own self". Remember this. We men must begin to complain to police with the slightest nagging of our wife. Then only these women will understand that we also know how to fight for our rights. Don't think that such action will have
negative influence on your child. If your child is expose to
situation where his mother is torturing and controlling his father, then he too will grow up timid and expect that his wife will do the same. We are actually saving our own child's future by not allowing him to see that his mother is torturing his father. Given a chance, make a police complain on any unreasonable demand of your wife and see the ripple effect in the mindset of the society. Other men will also realise that its enough and we all men must fight for our rights otherwise these women will shallow us whole. Till date they
are just under a delusion that men think only lust. We will teach them what man can do.
# posted by : 12:18 AM, October 12, 2005
: 12:18 AM, October 12, 2005
>Satya, You have hit the nail right on the head. Its time we
realise that instead of trying and trying and trying to change these
women, we better change ourself. Lets change ourself instead of
waiting when these women will realise their mistakes. To hell with
these women. We just change our attitude and mentality, and life for
us will change itself. Who the hell is saying that we don't have
RIGHTS to be happy ? We will fight for our rights. We will see who
has guts to stop us now. If these women don't have any consideration
of our childrens then let it be. We can't allow them to torture us
continuously only because we don't want our childrens to suffer. Let
people say whatever they want to say. Let them say we are naamard
(no-men), we mustn't care. They have no clue what has happened to
us, who are they to decide something for our life. "Only one man can
defeat you, that is your own self". Remember this. We men must begin
to complain to police with the slightest nagging of our wife.
>> Then only these women will understand that we also know how to
fight for our rights. Don't think that such action will have
negative influence on your child. If your child is expose to
situation where his mother is torturing and controlling his father,
then he too will grow up timid and expect that his wife will do the
same. We are actually saving our own child's future by not allowing
him to see that his mother is torturing his father. Given a chance,
make a police complain on any unreasonable demand of your wife and
see the ripple effect in the mindset of the society. Other men will
also realise that its enough and we all men must fight for our
rights otherwise these women will shallow us whole. Till date they
are just under a delusion that men think only lust. We will teach
them what man can do.
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realise that instead of trying and trying and trying to change these
women, we better change ourself. Lets change ourself instead of
waiting when these women will realise their mistakes. To hell with
these women. We just change our attitude and mentality, and life for
us will change itself. Who the hell is saying that we don't have
RIGHTS to be happy ? We will fight for our rights. We will see who
has guts to stop us now. If these women don't have any consideration
of our childrens then let it be. We can't allow them to torture us
continuously only because we don't want our childrens to suffer. Let
people say whatever they want to say. Let them say we are naamard
(no-men), we mustn't care. They have no clue what has happened to
us, who are they to decide something for our life. "Only one man can
defeat you, that is your own self". Remember this. We men must begin
to complain to police with the slightest nagging of our wife.
>> Then only these women will understand that we also know how to
fight for our rights. Don't think that such action will have
negative influence on your child. If your child is expose to
situation where his mother is torturing and controlling his father,
then he too will grow up timid and expect that his wife will do the
same. We are actually saving our own child's future by not allowing
him to see that his mother is torturing his father. Given a chance,
make a police complain on any unreasonable demand of your wife and
see the ripple effect in the mindset of the society. Other men will
also realise that its enough and we all men must fight for our
rights otherwise these women will shallow us whole. Till date they
are just under a delusion that men think only lust. We will teach
them what man can do.
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